Do "Black" men feel this way, or have felt this way?

"Nappy headed brotha's never had no ladies..."

From the lyrics of India Arie's featuring Akon "I am not my hair..."

Do you or have you felt this way and if so, why didn't you all let us know how you felt?

Another thing, do cops really trip because you have waves? I didn't know this...I feel ashamed being a black female with brothers myself, but I don't know if they've ever been harassed for wearing wave caps!

Also, what in the world is a "frumpy curl" ?

Please let me know how y'all feel/felt!

Thanks,

Bonnie

Do "Black" men feel this way, or have felt this way?

i agree with the phrase "Nappy headed brotha's never had no ladies" . i'm black but my friends and i always joke about how we have 2 marry white men so our kids wont have nappy hair...i can understand why nappy headed guys dont get girls...especially black girls...girls will do whatever they can to make sure they have the perfect kids, and that inclues kids without nappy hair...i hope this gives a lil' insight..

Do "Black" men feel this way, or have felt this way?

I gave up the fro a long time ago